ArcaMax

Q: This year we moved into a new (larger) house. So, for the first time at Thanksgiving and Christmas, the entire extended family will be under one roof: ours. How can we manage the stress of hosting?

Jim: The holiday season should be the most joyous time of the year -- but often it's the most stressful. I think a big reason is how we build up ...Read more

Q: My wife and I are committed to helping our kids explore their natural talents in sports, music, and other areas as they grow up. But every time we try something new, the kids seem to hate it. I'm perplexed -- what's the secret?

Jim: The first question to ask is a powerful one: "Who's more interested in this activity -- my child, or me?"

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Q: My husband and I are classic examples of "opposites attract." We deeply love each other even though we hold different spiritual and social beliefs. We're expecting our first child, and we plan on always showing her both our perspectives as she grows so she'll be well-rounded. Do you agree that's the right approach?

Jim: Actually, many ...Read more

Q: My adult nephew seems to have lost his way in life; he's behaving in ways that are completely foreign to our family's values. This situation grieves me deeply and my inclination is to just cut him out of our lives. Do you have any advice?

Jim: Many families encounter this difficult scenario. While I understand your feelings, I'd suggest you ...Read more